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	<title>Comments on: Entrepreneurs: Is there a &#8217;success to family&#8217; pendulum?</title>
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		<title>By: chrisyeh</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 22:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve started a number of companies.  I&#039;ve been married for all of them (to the same woman, my very tolerant wife Alisha), and I&#039;ve had kids for the past several.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;There&#039;s no question that it&#039;s easier to be an entrepreneur when you have gobs of time and no personal life, but as a dad, I think I work smarter because I have no alternative.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And I wouldn&#039;t have it any other way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;ve started a number of companies.  I&#39;ve been married for all of them (to the same woman, my very tolerant wife Alisha), and I&#39;ve had kids for the past several.</p>
<p>There&#39;s no question that it&#39;s easier to be an entrepreneur when you have gobs of time and no personal life, but as a dad, I think I work smarter because I have no alternative.</p>
<p>And I wouldn&#39;t have it any other way.</p>
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		<title>By: James Robert Lay</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Robert Lay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 13:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad... keep the conversation going. You are not solo in this matter. I am right here with you on the risks/decisions/fears and also successes. I have been there at the 80-100 hour weeks when first getting started.  These have been reduced to 60-70 hour weeks.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Having been married for 3.5 years, it has been a challenge to find balance.  No longer is it &quot;all about me&quot; and 15 hour days won&#039;t cut it with my wife. Just like business relationships, marriage is the same in the fact that what you get out of marriage is what you invest into your marriage. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My goal is like yours to grow a happy family while at the same time build a successful business that allows me to provide for my family, fulfill personal goals.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I believe that the two can meet but it takes the work of both husband wife and kids. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As we just found out that my wife is pregnant with our first I am excited at the growth of our family and the challenge to continue to grow the business all while finding balance for everything. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In the end, it is our families that we are working for and should remain grounded and true to them. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To help in this with our family at home, we must build a strong &quot;family&quot; at the office to support one another and help each other out along the way through life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad&#8230; keep the conversation going. You are not solo in this matter. I am right here with you on the risks/decisions/fears and also successes. I have been there at the 80-100 hour weeks when first getting started.  These have been reduced to 60-70 hour weeks.  </p>
<p>Having been married for 3.5 years, it has been a challenge to find balance.  No longer is it &#8220;all about me&#8221; and 15 hour days won&#39;t cut it with my wife. Just like business relationships, marriage is the same in the fact that what you get out of marriage is what you invest into your marriage. </p>
<p>My goal is like yours to grow a happy family while at the same time build a successful business that allows me to provide for my family, fulfill personal goals.</p>
<p>I believe that the two can meet but it takes the work of both husband wife and kids. </p>
<p>As we just found out that my wife is pregnant with our first I am excited at the growth of our family and the challenge to continue to grow the business all while finding balance for everything. </p>
<p>In the end, it is our families that we are working for and should remain grounded and true to them. </p>
<p>To help in this with our family at home, we must build a strong &#8220;family&#8221; at the office to support one another and help each other out along the way through life.</p>
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